Singles Warehouse http://www.singleswarehouse.co.uk Dating Advice Wed, 22 May 2013 18:00:02 +0000 en-US hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.5.1 3 Rules For Qualifying A Good Wingman by @Instigaytor http://www.singleswarehouse.co.uk/2013/05/3-rules-for-qualifying-a-good-wingman-by-instigaytor/ http://www.singleswarehouse.co.uk/2013/05/3-rules-for-qualifying-a-good-wingman-by-instigaytor/#comments Wed, 22 May 2013 18:00:02 +0000 Instigaytor http://www.singleswarehouse.co.uk/?p=21801 Not all of your friends are worthy or capable of being good wingmen. You and I both wish they could, but things can get ugly when you have a group of single gay men vying for the attention of potential suitors. So if you’re single and thinking of hunting with a partner or pack, there is a certain set of criteria that all members of your group must meet. Here are my top 3 rules for qualifying a successful wingman 1. Have The Same Mission You and your wingman have to have the same or similar mission. This means they either need to be on the hunt with you or on the hunt on your behalf. Anyone else and you shouldn’t be upset if they don’t lend you a hand because they have nothing to gain by seeing you succeed in getting the guy. 2. Have Different Social Circles Both or all of you, depending on how many are in your circle, need to have additional social circles outside of the one you share. This helps diversify your hunting grounds and ensures that there’s always fresh territory to cover. A wingman with multiple social circles is less likely to cock block because he knows that there are enough guys to go around. 3. Be Social Proof Your wingman needs to be able to vouch for you and make sure everyone knows that you are the shizznit. This means your wingman needs to know all of your strengths and be able to talk them up. They also need to know your weaknesses and be able to either help you strengthen them, or divert attention away from them. You also have to be able to return the favor. If you or your wingman is not comfortable being a sidekick sometimes, chances are you are going to block each other you the first chance you get to prove who tops alpha of the pack.

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J. Cameron Gantt is the Head Dating Coach at Insti(Gay)tor, The Exclusively Gay Matchmaking Agency. Based out of Chicago, Cameron has had the opportunity to help hundreds of gay men bring excitement back into their love life and meet quality singles who are looking to find their perfect match. He currently serves as the gay dating expert for various dating and lifestyle websites dishing the good, bad and just plain dirty on love and relationships.
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]]> Wingman 200x300 3 Rules For Qualifying A Good Wingman by @InstigaytorNot all of your friends are worthy or capable of being good wingmen. You and I both wish they could, but things can get ugly when you have a group of single gay men vying for the attention of potential suitors.

So if you’re single and thinking of hunting with a partner or pack, there is a certain set of criteria that all members of your group must meet.

Here are my top 3 rules for qualifying a successful wingman

1. Have The Same Mission

You and your wingman have to have the same or similar mission. This means they either need to be on the hunt with you or on the hunt on your behalf. Anyone else and you shouldn’t be upset if they don’t lend you a hand because they have nothing to gain by seeing you succeed in getting the guy.

bookstore150 3 Rules For Qualifying A Good Wingman by @Instigaytor2. Have Different Social Circles

Both or all of you, depending on how many are in your circle, need to have additional social circles outside of the one you share. This helps diversify your hunting grounds and ensures that there’s always fresh territory to cover. A wingman with multiple social circles is less likely to cock block because he knows that there are enough guys to go around.

3. Be Social Proof

Your wingman needs to be able to vouch for you and make sure everyone knows that you are the shizznit. This means your wingman needs to know all of your strengths and be able to talk them up. They also need to know your weaknesses and be able to either help you strengthen them, or divert attention away from them. You also have to be able to return the favor.

If you or your wingman is not comfortable being a sidekick sometimes, chances are you are going to block each other you the first chance you get to prove who tops alpha of the pack.

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J. Cameron Gantt is the Head Dating Coach at Insti(Gay)tor, The Exclusively Gay Matchmaking Agency. Based out of Chicago, Cameron has had the opportunity to help hundreds of gay men bring excitement back into their love life and meet quality singles who are looking to find their perfect match. He currently serves as the gay dating expert for various dating and lifestyle websites dishing the good, bad and just plain dirty on love and relationships.
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]]> http://www.singleswarehouse.co.uk/2013/05/3-rules-for-qualifying-a-good-wingman-by-instigaytor/feed/ 0 Finding Your Soulmate by @DontKillYourDat http://www.singleswarehouse.co.uk/2013/05/finding-your-soulmate-by-dontkillyourdat/ http://www.singleswarehouse.co.uk/2013/05/finding-your-soulmate-by-dontkillyourdat/#comments Wed, 22 May 2013 06:00:44 +0000 Spike Spencer http://www.singleswarehouse.co.uk/?p=21851 Is there such a thing as a soulmate? Yes. Well, that’s good news. But here’s even better news. There is not just one lonely soul out there waiting to find you. There are thousands, maybe even hundreds of thousands that will fit the bill for what you believe may be your soulmate. But how can this be?!? You have been inundated over centuries of romantic lore that you all have that one perfect person that you must find to make your lives complete – the “love of your life.” It has been written in books, plays, made into movies and hammered into your skulls that you all have that one chance, that one shot at perfect happiness. You must seek out and nab the other half of your heart and you only have one chance at… Finding Your Soulmate Well, my friends, as is with most commonly believed romantic notions, this is a crock of horse poop. Seriously, think about it for a moment. There are over 7 billion people on this planet. Knock half of them out as the same sex as you, 3.5 billion. Then let’s just randomly knock out another half that are not in your category as single, we are at 1.75 billion. And just for whatever reason, let’s drop another half, just because. We are still looking at over 800 million possibilities. Aw, Hell, let’s just go ahead and slice that number in two. Now you have over 400 million possible soulmates out there. Pretty good odds indeed. You may argue that, (in this incredibly scientific breakdown) though the numbers are great, there is still only one that will match you perfectly. And that would be a foolish argument indeed. Ask yourself honestly, how many times have you found someone that you thought could most certainly be soulmate material? I’m willing to bet many times. But for some reason, it did not work out. The timing was not right, you weren’t in a good place, or there was just that certain something that didn’t fit. You will tell yourself that they just weren’t your soulmate. But you have to be honest with yourself and realize that with a very minor tweak in the situation, they might have been perfect for you. Some of you, like me, may have even found your soulmate and started a life together, only to have it all fall apart. You find yourself cold and alone with little hope of happiness, till one day another soulmate pops into your life and brings you back from the brink. Now is this one your soulmate or was the first one, and you just screwed it up? Or maybe they screwed it up. Either way, you were convinced that they were the one. Had things gone a different way, you would have been fully wrapped up with your one and only soulmate. The first one, I mean. Or, God forfend, the one you love is taken from you and you are left alone, heartbroken. Will you seek another eventually? Probably. Will they be the one, or was it the first one that sadly passed away? These are the kinds of questions that you can rationalize all you want after the fact ad nauseam, but it will not change the reality that… You Have Many Chances at a Soulmate The romantic notion of there being only one, is not only ridiculous, but it’s damaging. This belief can lead to despair and hopelessness. I have been there and I know. And then I found someone better! Another problem with this “one and only” notion, is that it puts all the onus on fate, or the other soulmate, but never squarely where the true issue lies. With you. When bad things happen and you lose the one you love for whatever reason, do you give up? Sadly, some do, but most of you fight on and believe that you simply did not find your soulmate. But you did, at least, find ONE of them. So now you are back on the prowl. That means there is another opportunity at a soulmate for you. The real question now is, are you soulmate material? Are you ready for the only one you believe is out there for you? Have you done the internal work that makes you a strong candidate? You will meet the perfect person many times over the course of your life, but you may not be ready for it. Lincoln said, “I will prepare myself and someday my chance will come.” If you are not preparing yourself, you will miss the soulmate opportunities as they whiz by you almost daily. But he further stated, “Give me six hours to chop down a tree and I will spend the first four sharpening the axe.” This is your cue to work on your tools before you can find that perfect soulmate. Ready yourself! Work on bettering yourself in all areas so that when that next perfect soulmate strolls by, you will recognize that it is an opportunity, a chance, but not the only chance at happiness. Life is full of happiness and love, if you are able to see it. If you have been knocked down, let this realization of abundant soulmates buoy you up and keep your head above water. Breathe deeply and relax. Focus on the one thing that you can improve, yourself. Get to work, and do it quickly. The faster you improve, the sooner your next soulmate will arrive. Happy hunting.

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The “Dating Sage,” Spike Spencer, is an internationally known public speaker, actor, voice over talent, and a Foodie of the first magnitude. He is also a self-published author, with thousands of books sold. For the past 6 years, Spike has been speaking in his humorous “Don’t Kill Your Date (and Other Cooking Tips)” panel at conventions around the world. Thousands have enjoyed his talks about dating, relationships, and “being a man,” using cooking, adventure, and self improvement as his mediums. At some of these appearances, Spike actually cooks for the crowd. Spike is currently in production on the TV pilot of his "Don't Kill Your Date (and Other Cooking Tips)" cooking/dating talk show, and writing the companion book, of the same title. The DKYD concept derives from a very real desire to help guys become better MEN, spurred by Spike’s own personal story of divorce tragedy, bankruptcy, love lost, and re-emergence into the dating world. Through Spike’s “field research” - dating triumphs and tragedies, crazy experiences, PUA studies, and learning to really listen to women and build a strong successful relationship- Spike is the straight guy women can count on to help them translate their needs to their men. Spike uses cooking, a very real and popular way to expand a man’s arsenal of desirable traits, to help men attract the woman of their dreams, just like Spike has done!
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]]> Soulmate 199x300 Finding Your Soulmate by @DontKillYourDatIs there such a thing as a soulmate? Yes. Well, that’s good news. But here’s even better news. There is not just one lonely soul out there waiting to find you. There are thousands, maybe even hundreds of thousands that will fit the bill for what you believe may be your soulmate.

But how can this be?!? You have been inundated over centuries of romantic lore that you all have that one perfect person that you must find to make your lives complete – the “love of your life.” It has been written in books, plays, made into movies and hammered into your skulls that you all have that one chance, that one shot at perfect happiness. You must seek out and nab the other half of your heart and you only have one chance at…

Finding Your Soulmate

Well, my friends, as is with most commonly believed romantic notions, this is a crock of horse poop. Seriously, think about it for a moment. There are over 7 billion people on this planet. Knock half of them out as the same sex as you, 3.5 billion. Then let’s just randomly knock out another half that are not in your category as single, we are at 1.75 billion. And just for whatever reason, let’s drop another half, just because. We are still looking at over 800 million possibilities. Aw, Hell, let’s just go ahead and slice that number in two. Now you have over 400 million possible soulmates out there. Pretty good odds indeed.

bookstore150 Finding Your Soulmate by @DontKillYourDatYou may argue that, (in this incredibly scientific breakdown) though the numbers are great, there is still only one that will match you perfectly. And that would be a foolish argument indeed. Ask yourself honestly, how many times have you found someone that you thought could most certainly be soulmate material? I’m willing to bet many times. But for some reason, it did not work out. The timing was not right, you weren’t in a good place, or there was just that certain something that didn’t fit. You will tell yourself that they just weren’t your soulmate. But you have to be honest with yourself and realize that with a very minor tweak in the situation, they might have been perfect for you.

Some of you, like me, may have even found your soulmate and started a life together, only to have it all fall apart. You find yourself cold and alone with little hope of happiness, till one day another soulmate pops into your life and brings you back from the brink. Now is this one your soulmate or was the first one, and you just screwed it up? Or maybe they screwed it up. Either way, you were convinced that they were the one. Had things gone a different way, you would have been fully wrapped up with your one and only soulmate. The first one, I mean.

Or, God forfend, the one you love is taken from you and you are left alone, heartbroken. Will you seek another eventually? Probably. Will they be the one, or was it the first one that sadly passed away? These are the kinds of questions that you can rationalize all you want after the fact ad nauseam, but it will not change the reality that…

You Have Many Chances at a Soulmate

The romantic notion of there being only one, is not only ridiculous, but it’s damaging. This belief can lead to despair and hopelessness. I have been there and I know. And then I found someone better!

There isn’t only one soulmate out there for you.  Just because you lost one doesn’t mean another won’t come along.

Another problem with this “one and only” notion, is that it puts all the onus on fate, or the other soulmate, but never squarely where the true issue lies. With you. When bad things happen and you lose the one you love for whatever reason, do you give up? Sadly, some do, but most of you fight on and believe that you simply did not find your soulmate. But you did, at least, find ONE of them. So now you are back on the prowl. That means there is another opportunity at a soulmate for you. The real question now is, are you soulmate material?

Are you ready for the only one you believe is out there for you? Have you done the internal work that makes you a strong candidate? You will meet the perfect person many times over the course of your life, but you may not be ready for it. Lincoln said, “I will prepare myself and someday my chance will come.” If you are not preparing yourself, you will miss the soulmate opportunities as they whiz by you almost daily. But he further stated, “Give me six hours to chop down a tree and I will spend the first four sharpening the axe.” This is your cue to work on your tools before you can find that perfect soulmate.

Ready yourself! Work on bettering yourself in all areas so that when that next perfect soulmate strolls by, you will recognize that it is an opportunity, a chance, but not the only chance at happiness. Life is full of happiness and love, if you are able to see it. If you have been knocked down, let this realization of abundant soulmates buoy you up and keep your head above water. Breathe deeply and relax. Focus on the one thing that you can improve, yourself. Get to work, and do it quickly. The faster you improve, the sooner your next soulmate will arrive. Happy hunting.

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Spike Spencer
The “Dating Sage,” Spike Spencer, is an internationally known public speaker, actor, voice over talent, and a Foodie of the first magnitude. He is also a self-published author, with thousands of books sold. For the past 6 years, Spike has been speaking in his humorous “Don’t Kill Your Date (and Other Cooking Tips)” panel at conventions around the world. Thousands have enjoyed his talks about dating, relationships, and “being a man,” using cooking, adventure, and self improvement as his mediums. At some of these appearances, Spike actually cooks for the crowd. Spike is currently in production on the TV pilot of his "Don't Kill Your Date (and Other Cooking Tips)" cooking/dating talk show, and writing the companion book, of the same title. The DKYD concept derives from a very real desire to help guys become better MEN, spurred by Spike’s own personal story of divorce tragedy, bankruptcy, love lost, and re-emergence into the dating world. Through Spike’s “field research” - dating triumphs and tragedies, crazy experiences, PUA studies, and learning to really listen to women and build a strong successful relationship- Spike is the straight guy women can count on to help them translate their needs to their men. Spike uses cooking, a very real and popular way to expand a man’s arsenal of desirable traits, to help men attract the woman of their dreams, just like Spike has done!
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]]> http://www.singleswarehouse.co.uk/2013/05/finding-your-soulmate-by-dontkillyourdat/feed/ 0 Do We Want Miley Cyrus and Liam Hemsworth to Breakup? By @Tara_Merry http://www.singleswarehouse.co.uk/2013/05/do-we-want-miley-cyrus-and-liam-hemsworth-to-breakup-by-tara_merry/ http://www.singleswarehouse.co.uk/2013/05/do-we-want-miley-cyrus-and-liam-hemsworth-to-breakup-by-tara_merry/#comments Tue, 21 May 2013 18:00:57 +0000 Tara Merry http://www.singleswarehouse.co.uk/?p=21697 Recently the internet has been flooded with rumors that Miley Cyrus and fiance Liam Hemsworth have called off their engagement after being together for almost four years. Although Miley has since dispelled rumors of a breakup by posting a nonchalant snap of her engagement ring on twitter. This is not the first and probably won’t be the last time we hear about these two ending their relationship before they have had a chance to make it down the aisle. Why Do We Want Them to Breakup? There is no denying that Miley and Liam have had a roller coaster of a relationship. They broke up twice in 2010 before finally getting back together in 2011 and then announcing their engagement in 2012. Their relationship has been riddled with rumors that they have both repeatedly cheated on each other at various stages and these are rumors that we are all too eager to believe. It seems that we are a little too impatient for this young couple to split, we excitedly accepting whispers of a breakup with a happy sigh. We rejoice over the fact that these two have not wed too young, possibly making a mistake that they will regret for the rest of their life. We see ourselves as voyeurs into their relationship. Voyeurs who are fortunate enough have realized that things are doomed before Miley and Liam have gotten the chance. Maybe you’re shaking your head at this article; maybe you’re Mileys biggest fan and wish her nothing but happiness. That’s fine, I understand. I’m from New Zealand, a country right next to Liam’s homeland of Australia. Since New Zealand celebrities are almost non-existent I support famous Australians with an unquestionable loyalty. I want nothing but good things for Liam. So let me ask you this, whether or not you want them to breakup, when you heard news of their split were you surprised? 4 Reasons We Think They Will End Things: 1)      They’re too young – At 19 and 23 none of us can believe that these two have managed to find ‘The One’ at such a tender age. 2)      He’s famous now – Most people had never heard of Liam when he first started dating Miley, but now that he’s gained Hunger Games fame we expect him to use opportunity to play the field. 3)      Everyone else breaks up – Every other relationship in Hollywood seems to have an expiry date, the odds of a 19 and 23 year old being one of the few couples that lasts the distance is almost inconceivable. 4)      It’s not fair – Miley’s young, rich and famous and now she gets to marry Liam Hemsworth? No way, how do we get her life? Which makes me wonder, maybe the problem isn’t with Liam and Miley’s relationship, maybe the problem lies with us?

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]]> breakup tara merry 300x214 Do We Want Miley Cyrus and Liam Hemsworth to Breakup? By @Tara MerryRecently the internet has been flooded with rumors that Miley Cyrus and fiance Liam Hemsworth have called off their engagement after being together for almost four years.
Although Miley has since dispelled rumors of a breakup by posting a nonchalant snap of her engagement ring on twitter. This is not the first and probably won’t be the last time we hear about these two ending their relationship before they have had a chance to make it down the aisle.

Why Do We Want Them to Breakup?

We see ourselves as voyeurs into their relationship. Voyeurs who are fortunate enough have realized that things are doomed before Miley and Liam have gotten the chance.

There is no denying that Miley and Liam have had a roller coaster of a relationship. They broke up twice in 2010 before finally getting back together in 2011 and then announcing their engagement in 2012.
Their relationship has been riddled with rumors that they have both repeatedly cheated on each other at various stages and these are rumors that we are all too eager to believe.

It seems that we are a little too impatient for this young couple to split, we excitedly accepting whispers of a breakup with a happy sigh. We rejoice over the fact that these two have not wed too young, possibly making a mistake that they will regret for the rest of their life.
We see ourselves as voyeurs into their relationship. Voyeurs who are fortunate enough have realized that things are doomed before Miley and Liam have gotten the chance.

Maybe you’re shaking your head at this article; maybe you’re Mileys biggest fan and wish her nothing but happiness.
That’s fine, I understand. I’m from New Zealand, a country right next to Liam’s homeland of Australia. Since New Zealand celebrities are almost non-existent I support famous Australians with an unquestionable loyalty. I want nothing but good things for Liam.

bookstore150 Do We Want Miley Cyrus and Liam Hemsworth to Breakup? By @Tara MerrySo let me ask you this, whether or not you want them to breakup, when you heard news of their split were you surprised?

4 Reasons We Think They Will End Things:

1)      They’re too young – At 19 and 23 none of us can believe that these two have managed to find ‘The One’ at such a tender age.

2)      He’s famous now – Most people had never heard of Liam when he first started dating Miley, but now that he’s gained Hunger Games fame we expect him to use opportunity to play the field.

3)      Everyone else breaks up – Every other relationship in Hollywood seems to have an expiry date, the odds of a 19 and 23 year old being one of the few couples that lasts the distance is almost inconceivable.

4)      It’s not fair – Miley’s young, rich and famous and now she gets to marry Liam Hemsworth? No way, how do we get her life?

Which makes me wonder, maybe the problem isn’t with Liam and Miley’s relationship, maybe the problem lies with us?

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]]> http://www.singleswarehouse.co.uk/2013/05/do-we-want-miley-cyrus-and-liam-hemsworth-to-breakup-by-tara_merry/feed/ 1 How Can You Find Your Soul Mate Using Affirmations by @howcanufindlove http://www.singleswarehouse.co.uk/2013/05/how-can-you-find-your-soul-mate-using-affirmations-by-howcanufindlove/ http://www.singleswarehouse.co.uk/2013/05/how-can-you-find-your-soul-mate-using-affirmations-by-howcanufindlove/#comments Tue, 21 May 2013 14:00:25 +0000 Lorii.Abela http://www.singleswarehouse.co.uk/?p=21769 Finding a Soul Mate Using Affirmations? To find your soul mate using affirmations can be a very effective method, but there’s more to this than meets the eye. The truth is, you attract everything that you think about constantly; therefore, unless your thoughts are congruent with your words (or affirmations) there is a big chance you could end up not getting what you want – or getting something very different. Understanding Affirmations Affirmations are repeated verbal cues that give your subconscious mind a specific direction to work towards. No matter what that direction is, your mind will start working on it as soon as the affirmation takes root. So, when you’re thinking “I need to find me a wife”, “Please find me a boyfriend” or any other relationship-based thoughts, your subconscious will be guided by those thoughts. Magically, or so it will seem, things will gradually fall into place and you will find yourself in exactly the situation you were hoping for. Taking those two same examples, the need to “find me a wife” or “find me a boyfriend” or whatever it is, will be the guiding beacon that your mind will unerringly take you towards. But when the opportunities come, you have to grab them with both hands and hang on as if your life depended on it – which, in this case, is 100% true. Affirmation, in itself, is a fantastic tool in your arsenal to manifest or find a soul mate. However, it has to be done right for you to enjoy the results you want. Firstly, you must believe with all your heart that a soul mate exists for you in this world. Not believing makes the affirmation practically worthless. It’s like believing it’s not going to rain, but carrying an umbrella when you go out – your words, as mentioned above, need to mirror your thoughts and beliefs. How to Get Started You can make a good start by making a written list of all the things you believe. This will help clarify your current position on many things including a belief that there is a soul mate out there waiting for you. Once you have this list, try to fit your requirement for a soul mate into something you already believe to be true. This is where your actual affirmation will come from. Once you have the affirmation ready, make sure you repeat it several times a day – the more the better. Use your list actively rather than creating it and then filing it away. But what is probably most important is to NOT be too attached to the results. Although your expectation level may be high, don’t set yourself up for a major disappointment. Keep saying your affirmations and then let the universe do the work of getting that to happen.

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Lorii.Abela
President at Manifesting My Destiny, Ltd.
Lorii Abela is a multi-awarded international leader, coach, speaker, author, and manifesting expert on the Law of Attraction for Love. She found her soulmate using the methods and principles she describes in her book Top Secrets to Manifest True Love. She has also authored, Take the Guesswork Out of Finding a Boyfriend, Do You Make These Common Mistakes?, Top Secrets to Manifest True Love, and numerous articles on love and cross-cultural dating. Her most recent work Speaking Your Truth Vol. 3 is an anthology with 42 other women. You can find out more about her at www.ManifestingYourTrueLove.com and her website www.HowCanYouFindLove.com While at the website, grab your free copy of "You Deserve a Healthy Relationship."
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Finding a Soul Mate Using Affirmations?

To find your soul mate using affirmations can be a very effective method, but there’s more to this than meets the eye. The truth is, you attract everything that you think about constantly; therefore, unless your thoughts are congruent with your words (or affirmations) there is a big chance you could end up not getting what you want – or getting something very different.

Understanding Affirmations

Affirmations are repeated verbal cues that give your subconscious mind a specific direction to work towards. No matter what that direction is, your mind will start working on it as soon as the affirmation takes root. So, when you’re thinking “I need to find me a wife”, “Please find me a boyfriend” or any other relationship-based thoughts, your subconscious will be guided by those thoughts. Magically, or so it will seem, things will gradually fall into place and you will find yourself in exactly the situation you were hoping for.

Taking those two same examples, the need to “find me a wife” or “find me a boyfriend” or whatever it is, will be the guiding beacon that your mind will unerringly take you towards. But when the opportunities come, you have to grab them with both hands and hang on as if your life depended on it – which, in this case, is 100% true.bookstore150 How Can You Find Your Soul Mate Using Affirmations by @howcanufindlove

Affirmation, in itself, is a fantastic tool in your arsenal to manifest or find a soul mate. However, it has to be done right for you to enjoy the results you want. Firstly, you must believe with all your heart that a soul mate exists for you in this world. Not believing makes the affirmation practically worthless. It’s like believing it’s not going to rain, but carrying an umbrella when you go out – your words, as mentioned above, need to mirror your thoughts and beliefs.

How to Get Started

You can make a good start by making a written list of all the things you believe. This will help clarify your current position on many things including a belief that there is a soul mate out there waiting for you. Once you have this list, try to fit your requirement for a soul mate into something you already believe to be true. This is where your actual affirmation will come from.

Once you have the affirmation ready, make sure you repeat it several times a day – the more the better. Use your list actively rather than creating it and then filing it away. But what is probably most important is to NOT be too attached to the results. Although your expectation level may be high, don’t set yourself up for a major disappointment. Keep saying your affirmations and then let the universe do the work of getting that to happen.

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Lorii.Abela
President at Manifesting My Destiny, Ltd.
Lorii Abela is a multi-awarded international leader, coach, speaker, author, and manifesting expert on the Law of Attraction for Love. She found her soulmate using the methods and principles she describes in her book Top Secrets to Manifest True Love. She has also authored, Take the Guesswork Out of Finding a Boyfriend, Do You Make These Common Mistakes?, Top Secrets to Manifest True Love, and numerous articles on love and cross-cultural dating. Her most recent work Speaking Your Truth Vol. 3 is an anthology with 42 other women. You can find out more about her at www.ManifestingYourTrueLove.com and her website www.HowCanYouFindLove.com While at the website, grab your free copy of "You Deserve a Healthy Relationship."
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Name: Dr Wendy Walsh

Age: Wise

Relationship Status: In a committed relationship with my children

Location: Los Angeles, California

Fun Fact:

Breast fed each kid for three years.

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Bollywood romantic comedies on Netflix. Love to play with knives and fire in the kitchen.

Best Date You’ve Been On?

A private jet to Las Vegas where the guy let me bring three galpals too!

What’s your most embarrassing dating story?

Sitting for thirty-minutes in one room of a multi-room restaurant while my date sat in another room. We both thought we’d been stood up!

What do you think a relationship is about?

An exchange of care. Period.

What golden bit of online dating advice would you give?

“Meet fast. Move slow.”

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Men it seems are much more optimistic about love than women and this is true for them regardless of race, marital status, sexuality or age. Married men and older men actually seem to be more likely to think love at first sight is possible.

I was surprised but happy to hear this statistic. I was raised with the philosophy that we women had to “work” at gettinglove at first sight 300x159 Love At First Sight by @LifeByteStory a man to fall for us. We had to play hard to get and use all of our feminine wiles to, as a friend once put it, “reel him in”. I, luckily, over the years have moved far, far away from this antiquated line of thinking. Reel him in??? Seriously, I wanted a man in my life – not a fish! But…there was always that little voice in the back of my head whispering to “get him to fall in love” with me. I feel as if my saner side has now won the argument.

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