3 Tricks to Have Interesting Phone Sex

TIPS FOR AMAZING PHONE SEX
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Phonesex is more than just talking on the phone about sex. Much like real sex is more than inserting object A into object B. Phone sex is an art that can be learned and cultivated with some hot tips and practice. Here are 5 tips to have interesting and fulfilling phone sex.

Set the Mood

You wouldn’t bring a girl back to your place for sex and have pizza boxes on the coffee table and a bag of trash that needed to be taken out three days ago, would you? Even though she can’t see you, it should be the same way for phone sex. How you feel about yourself comes through the phone and she wants to hear a guy who has his shit together. She also wants to hear a guy who knows how to create the right ambience to get her excited. So, go ahead and do it. Buy nice sheets, light a candle, buy a red light, and invest in a few toys and lotions. Just being in the right setting will move your phone sex game up several notches.

It Starts with Your Brain

Yes, we know that phone sex is still a physical act. Your body is going to respond to what you say and hear, but everything starts with your brain. When you know you are going to have phone sex, start thinking about it at least a day beforehand.

Imagine what you are going to say and give yourself permission to say whatever comes to your mind. There aren’t any rules here. No one is listening at this point. Get used to thinking about what you want to say and actually saying things out loud.

Maybe you aren’t a big swearer, so saying “pussy” and “cock” don’t sound natural for you. For some people, dirty talk is difficult but they really want to learn. Are there other words that work better for you? Or if you practice enough, do you think you could feel comfortable saying the dirtier versions? Only you know what you can handle, but while you are alone and practicing, give yourself permission to put it all out there and see how it feels for you. Spending a day or two before you have phone sex just thinking about it will have you in a sex-filled frame of mind when the dialing starts.

Practice Describing Other People Having Sex

If talking about yourself is hard, try practicing describing other people having sex. Watch a porn and describe everything they are doing to each other, in detail. Listen to what they say to each other and note things you like. Also listen not only to the words, but to the sounds. Close your eyes and listen to the kissing, sucking, and slapping. This gives you a lot of insight into how hot talk works to turn your partner on.

Try watching and listening to some porn catered towards women to note how it is different. Women typically like more of a storyline and words matter to help them get aroused. You will get some good ideas and those fresh storylines will be on your mind to help your come up with interesting directions to take.

Phone sex doesn’t have to be boring or awkward. It can really be a way to bring you closer to your partners and fulfill you in ways that even face-to-face sex can’t. Try these three tips for helping you have better phone sex and watch what happens.

 

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