Phone Sex Chat: Why Only Women Do the Talking

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The Differences in Sexual Desire Between Men & Women

More often than not, a sex chat line will have a woman at the other end. Why is it almost never the other way around?

It’s no secret that men and women can be vastly different when it comes to matters of sexual preferences. With the number of sex chat lines rising in recent years, a definite trend has emerged. It is men who are calling them, and not women. So why are men and women not changing from one end of the phone line to the other?

Different turn ons

The way men and women become sexually aroused may seem straightforward, but it’s not quite as simple as you might think. A man’s sexual arousal is easily stimulated by visual cues and sound, while a woman’s sexual desire is often kick-started by more emotional or mental cues. So while a man may find that watching porn or calling a sex line is a great way for him to release some pent-up sexual tension, a woman may curl up with a racy book. Consider the Fifty Shades of Grey phenomenon for example. A book of that genre is the perfect way for a lady to get her mind whirring in the most delicious ways. These differences in sexual preferences help to explain the lack of sex chat lines targeted at women.

The emotional connection:

As previously mentioned, women value the emotional aspects of a relationship, with a strong emotional connection with her partner leading to their own arousal. So the anonymity of calling a sex line may not be something that appeals. While it’s a great and convenient way for men to relax and have a good time, women value the emotional intimacy of sex more. That’s not to say that women don’t enjoy phone sex, but often with a partner that they know and trust. Taking time to build up an emotional connection with a partner is important for everyone, but for women, it is often a part of their own sexual desires.

Female masturbation is still a bit taboo

While ladies are freer to express their sexuality than they were years ago, female masturbation is something that not a lot of women talk about or even admit to doing. Whereas men are always talking about it, whether it’s with their partner or their friends, with little or no stigma attached to it. A possible reason why women aren’t ringing sex lines could be exactly that, it’s just something that isn’t as widely talked about, and they may be embarrassed to seek out pleasure in such a direct way.

Conversation: girls do it better

We all know how much girls love to chat, and when it comes to sex lines aimed at heterosexuals, they are always the ones doing the talking. Keeping a conversation going comes more naturally to women, and this is a definite contributing reason as to why they are more often seen as sex line operators rather than callers. Lead the way, ladies!

We’re all different

Of course, there are exceptions to the rule. Some men may not choose to ring sex lines, and there are some women out there who do, rare as they are. Aside from the outliers though, the sex chat industry is often one with a mostly male customer base, thanks to the brilliant ladies at the other end. While it doesn’t look like this is going to change any time soon, it’s simply because men and women are turned on by very different, yet equally sexy things.

Author Bio – Jenny Ainslie Turner is one of the UK’s most prolific adult chat entrepreneurs and the founder of Jenny’s Extreme Chat, a hard-core phone chat service.

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