Get Over a Break Up: Keeping Contact with your Ex’s Friends by @HowCanUFindLove

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It’s not easy to get over a break up if there are constant reminders of your Ex plaguing you all the time. Keeping in touch with mutual friends could be that constant reminder. But before you throw that idea out the window, find out if it will actually be good for you on your newly found path to finding a soulmate.

Get Over a Break Up Properly

By this, it means that you don’t need to pile guilt on yourself for the broken relationship. This was a two-way street and your Ex bears half of all the responsibility and fault. So, when you’re on a journey of finding a soulmate after your break-up and you’re wondering if it would be a good idea to keep sharing friends, think about these things:

Are these Friends Giving you Good Energy

If your Ex’s friends are good company and don’t remind you of him (or her) constantly, then it may be a good idea to continue the relationship. Finding a soulmate after a break up doesn’t mean that you need to discard everything from the relationship – some things are good, so keep them.

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On the other hand, if you want to get over the break up and these “friends” constantly taunt you with “what you’re missing” or “you should have never broken up”, then get rid of them quicker than lightning – you don’t need to haul around more emotional baggage than you absolutely have to.

Does it Mean Bumping into your Ex Frequently

While this may not be advisable, think about whether it’s really a bad thing. If the break-up was mutual and amicable, then this is not a problem. On the other hand, if hanging around with friends is going to force you to keep facing a hostile Ex, then you’re better off with new friends.

Can They Be of any Help or Give Support

The most important consideration is whether or not they can help you move on with your life. The law of attraction for love doesn’t dictate what you should do – merely what you should think about for the future. Therefore, if the mutual friend is taking you close to your goal of finding a soulmate by continuing to be your friend, then by all means hang on to them.

Using these tips, you can easily judge for yourself whether you should continue to keep in touch with mutual friends of your Ex, or whether you should find a new set of friends who may actually help the law of attraction for love work in your favor.


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  • June 4, 2013

    Fantasy Dating™ Game

    I’ve rarely stayed friends with my ex’s friends. When I’m done with someone, I’m usually DONE. But these are great points to consider! Thank you, Lorii!

  • June 6, 2013

    Melissa Michel

    Great tips, Lorii! Breaking up can be hard and keeping the same friends can be a “bad” reminder sometimes! Thanks!

  • June 6, 2013

    Sue Graber

    Good article Lorii. I think it might be hard to stay in contact with mutual friends of an ex- but I think it depends most on the kind of relationship you had with them. If it was a “clean” break and you don’t have to worry about people taking sides, I would hate to discard valued friendships that can still be mutually beneficial!

  • June 7, 2013


    In these situations, the most important aspect is finding the solution to continue to feel good and have the energy to move forward. In the case of those who continue to bring up bad memories, might be a good idea to avoid them like you mentioned :)

  • March 26, 2014

    Awesome article.