I’ll only ever be honest with you. To attract a partner takes more than just getting a fantastic online profile or getting out there dating. Becoming more attractive, having more confidence and more fun in your life will dramatically increase your chances of bagging the man or woman of your dreams. It doesn’t have to be difficult if you commit to the long game and make some simple lifestyle choices.
1) Take pride in your appearance
Whatever your sense of fashion or style, you must be well groomed and wear good quality, well cared for clothes that flatter your particular build or body shape. Feeling good in what you wear and how you look breeds tremendous confidence as well as respect and admiration from others. There’s plenty of good advice and expertise out there if you’re interested in exploring this area further. A google search will often generate plenty of free information.
2) Work out for confidence
Doing exercise not only feels good, it also improves our mental and physical health. On top of this it helps us to look good – whoever says they don’t want to look good! Looking good and feeling healthy will improve our overall sense of self esteem and confidence which automatically attracts others to us. Check out gyms, running clubs, sports facilities and sports groups local to your work or home for ideas on how you might fit exercise into your life. Alternatively you may want to check out a personal fitness coach to get one to one specialist support in this area.
Regularly following your passions will give you a ‘joie de vivre’ and confidence in life that is hard to resist!
3) Follow your passions
Every one of us is usually passionate about something, whether this is following vampire sci-fi, dancing the Argentine tango or writing comedy screen plays. Do not lose sight of your passion – make time for it in your life, stay focused on enjoying it. Figure out how you might make it more social (if not already) and get other like minded people involved. Regularly following your passions will give you a ‘joie de vivre’ and confidence in life that is hard to resist.
So, don’t just say to yourself “great ideas, I’ll definitely think about these sometime” – commit to taking action now! Decide what you’re going to start with today and stick with it. You deserve to look good, feel great and ooze confidence!