We are all guilty of having things on our cell phone that we shouldn’t or that we’d be embarrassed if our parents or niece/nephew found. Admit it, you do! I know I have sexually explicit text messages, pictures of naked anatomy and some emails that would make the eyes melt out of some people’s heads. I am also guilty of having my 11 year old cousin pick up my phone without me knowing it and look through my pictures—OOOPS! Little shit shouldn’t have been touching my phone!!
The way a man treats his cell phone says a lot about him. If he can’t be separated from it, never lets it out of his pocket/sight then we assume there are things on there he doesn’t want us to see. It is the suspicious woman in us; we can’t help it! If he leaves it out in the open and goes in the other room to take a nap we are still curious. I actually had a friend who was convinced that when her man did this that the phone he left behind was a burn phone because no man just leaves his phone behind! I’m pretty sure she’d been watching too much Criminal Minds. Either way, rest assured that at some point your woman is going to try and look through your phone.
We will go Mission Impossible on your ass!
I don’t care if you have passwords or locks. I don’t care if you have top level security in place on your phone if you leave us with it we turn into some Geek squad tech nerd and crack that fucker! Nothing moves a woman to brilliance like the motivation to prove her man is on the up and up. We need to be sure that you aren’t still sexting, storing dirty pictures of ex’s, and actively engaging in communications with other women.
Whether women/men want to admit it I bet at one point we’ve all done this little move. You reach for their phone while in their line of sight and start scrolling around through their phone. One of a few things will happen here. They will either see you, shrug, and go about their business allowing you free access to the phone with nothing to hide. In this case whatever you find that may be questionable they have a perfectly understandable explanations for. They may also not make any move for the phone, letting you look through it knowing you will find things you won’t like but not giving two shits because they aren’t serious about you anyway. Lastly they will run/dive/ninja flip through the air to intercept you because they are terrified you will see something they know shouldn’t be on the phone.
I am not a jealous person by nature but I am naturally curious.
I don’t ‘test’ a guy by trying to look through their phone but of course I want to know what is on there. Whether it is a serious relationship or a causal one you know you want to see what is on there too. Would I want anyone doing that to me? Hell no! I know what is on there. Ladies remember that while you may be going Nerd Squad on his phone he’s probably done the same to yours. You aren’t above a little snooping either so clean your shit up! If you think it’ll upset your partner it’s best to get rid of it.
You can’t deny if you don’t delete.
I’ve had a lot of men in relationships, live with their lady, and they still sext me. It’s not my relationship to risk but I always hope they are being careful about erasing conversations from their phone. Listen up, guy, because here is the bottom line. Women are a curious bunch and I promise you that at some point she is going to peruse through your phone. So, if there is something in there you don’t want us to see it’s best to just delete it! You’ve been warned.