How would you feel if an Ex Girlfriend got in touch today?
[quote align="left" color="#999999"]I never thought I would say that.[/quote]Having been through a break up I can safely say that right now I wouldn’t want my ex to get in touch. Now I’m sure for most of you that’s probably a sentence that you’d agree with but actually for me I never thought I would say that. You see I think that if you really do care about someone then you should do your best by them. However if my ex were to get in touch right now I think I’d hate it. Especially since both of our lives are moving on. Time is a great healer, even for devastation.
Different things will have happened to both of you since your break up, you will have grieved, talked to friends that you may not have spoken to in a while and eventually started to date .
When should I start dating again?
This is a good question but the truthful answer is that you will start dating when you are ready or meet someone worthy of risking your heart for again. I wish I could tell you it takes 2 weeks or 3 months but it simply does not work like that. You’ll know. Trust your instincts.
What If I Still Want My Ex Girlfriend To Get In Touch?
Remember that love is a powerful thing so don’t beat yourself up in you are still thinking how great it would be if you got a text message today. As I said earlier time is a great healer, that feeling will go. Hopefully what wont go is your deeper feeling for that person. I’m not talking about love here, I’m talking about care. A care that will never ever burn out. And why should it?
So What Should I Do?
Everyone is different so our best advice is to do what feels right at the time. If you want to respond then do so, but really think about the reasons for you responding in the first place. Will it get you what you want or be a good thing for you.
What If I Have Moved On?
Well not to be too blunt about it but why are you reading this. Move on already!